Meeting quality men can be challenging at times. Frustration and desperation can pop up when you least expect it, leaving you disillusioned and jaded with men and dating.
Self-doubt can creep at the worst time and trigger self-defeating thoughts like:
If you can relate to these feelings, don’t worry because you’re not alone
Most women experience them.
The great news is that a helping hand is here.
I’d like to offer you some sound advice that will go a long way in attracting Mr. Right into your life.
Generally, women are far more socially advanced than men.
A woman can be flirting and the guy might not even realize what’s going on.
This might lead you to think, "What do I have to do to make him like me?"
This is the number ONE question dating & relationship specialists are asked.
An important tip to remember is: Dating shouldn't be about convincing a guy to ask you out.
Rather, it should be about finding someone interesting and seeing if you share a connection.
Then, you'll discover if you have mutual interests.
And allow the connection to develop naturally.
It’s better to go in without any agendas in the back of your mind.
It goes both ways of course…
Guys also have this mindset along the lines of "I need to make her like me" when they first meet a girl.
Unfortunately, you’ll crash and burn by loading your first date with similar expectations.
When you are trying too hard to impress him… Things seldom go well.
You are basically shooting yourself in the foot from the get-go.
As a result, all you are doing is putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.
On top of that, you’ll also come off as desperate and I’m sure you’ll agree this is NOT how you want him to perceive you.
Many women and men alike overcomplicate the attraction process when in reality it’s best to keep things simple.
In a nutshell, both parties need to discover each other little by little. This way, the connection will come about naturally and won’t feel forced.
Let me lay it out for you.
Don't let past experiences get in the way of any potential relationship.
If you have emotional baggage, he’ll pick up on it right away.
And if you don't release these emotions, these same past pains can bleed into your present situation. You may be unaware of them now, but they are absolutely TOXIC to a relationship.
They’ll gradually damage what you have with your new guy, and he’ll start to question whether you’re the girl he really wants to be with.
It’s not a good idea to pattern your behavior in relationships after worn-out movie clichés.
One example is the “I can’t live without being in a relationship” mindset that characters in a typical rom-com flick often seem to have. Like being single shouldn’t be seen as a personality defect. (It’s not)
Your relationship status doesn’t define you!!!
And getting a guy should be the natural consequence of cultivating a genuine, attractive personality. You shouldn’t be with someone just for the sake of filling that empty space in your life.
Otherwise, you’ll make decisions based on fear (i.e. “I might not find someone else”), and settle for a relationship that isn’t right for you.
You need to believe in yourself and understand that YOU DESERVE A QUALITY MAN who’s truly right for you
Men and women want the same thing from a relationship. Love and Security, Growth and Passion.
But, they experience these things in a dramatically different way.
That is why communicating with them in their language is vital to make him feel like you truly “get him”
As you will see below inside our Free E-book "The Top 7 Man-Melting Phrases That Make Men Fall For You" is a great done-for-you resource designed to help you connect with him on a level he has never experienced with any other woman before.
Even if you’re already in a relationship you can use these man melting phrases to build greater trust and harmony in your relationship.
The benefits will keep flowing because he will now be ready and willing to express his feelings that may have been closed off for years.
